how's their holidays..

hari ni my family will be coming back from their holidays in phuket . Sapa yg pergi? mak, papa, ain, abg tapa and his family, and abg apis and his family...I was supposed to join them too...but when thinking about penat pindah tak habis lagi, and Hadif yg ada check up for the last time with his doctor in Seremban, so we cancelled it..

Menyesal ke tak pergi? Emmm....takde la menyesal sangat...sbb aku ni bukannye suka pergi jalan-jalan sangat...tapi aku value berkumpul ramai2 ngan adik-beradik la...bukannye selalu dapat berkumpul sama-sama kan...

Tapi my cousin, for those yg know him, Cosry (hehe, nak promote cousin lak kat sini) nak buat housewarming party this Friday...so jumpa la semua org kat sana nanti except my kaklong in Miri...walaupun aku kena pergi JB this Thursday, hopefully can sampai KL before 7pm...

OK la...tunggu jer la citer dari adik aku Ain nanti...best ke tak holiday diorg tu...

Rindu Hadif

Kesian lak aku tgk Hadif lately ni, boring kot takde mana sgt dia boleh pergi bila kitorang pergi kerja. Kalau dulu at least dia boleh pergi main dgn kucing dia yg kitorang panggil 'meow Hadif', pergi tgk ayam kat rumah depan, pergi main2 ngan anak jiran....tapi skrg ni, paling jauh pun boleh main kat balcony....itupun kalau dia sorang2, aku tak berapa kasi dia keluar sangat, sbb pantang apa yg dia jumpa, mesti nak masuk mulut...

So apa yg aku buat skrg ni, lepas balik kerja, aku spend masa lepak2 ngan dia kat balcony. If husband ada sekali, we all pergi turun bawah bawak dia main tepi swimming pool...and kalau tak berapa penat, bawak la dia pergi tesco ke..mana2 yg patut bila malam...

I miss him very much right now, that's why I'm putting his pictures here...

Hadif dgn muka yg teramat suci

Jalan-jalan kat Seremban Parade

Miss you!!


Wish I could just stay at home, and play with you all days...

Selepas....

Alhamdulillah...almost 90% barang-barang keperluan di rumah baru, teleh dibeli..tinggal sikit2 jer lagi macam alas kaki, jam dinding, hiasan meja, hiasan dinding and all small items yg belom dibeli. Itu semua boleh la slowly aku buat, sbb tak affect keselesaan pun, its just more on kecantikan...

So here you are...how my house looks like after its first week with new owners. Minggu depan mungkin hiasan and susunan barang akan berubah...sebab itu la favourite aku, menghias dan mengubah apa yg patut sampai aku betul2 puas hati....even bila dah puas hati pun, after 1 month, dah rasa boring dan akan berubah lagi....and that's me...for those who knew me back in Sydney. Ada member aku panggil aku ni, Monica (dalam citer Friends tu la) sbb fussy dalam bab rumah. Tapi aku takla se'obsess' Monica, but kalau carpet aku tu, every morning aku mesti check whether lurus tak kedudukannya....hehehe...tak pe la...nama pun 'Rumahku Syurgaku'

View from my balcony

Disebabkan budget lari, pakai jer la TV lama....

See, aku tak tipu, nampak KLCC from rumah aku

Tempat kami bersantai

From other view

From my kitchen

Stool tak beli lagi, utk makan breakfast kat dapur

Tempat menyediakan santapan utk my hubby


Alhamdulillah, semuanya dah selamat, and aku tak perlu lagi berulang Seremban - KL like the good old days. But I'm going to miss those moments very much!

Sebelum ....

Wow! My life was pretty hectic lately ni...dah tak larat sesangat dah ni....but Alhamdulillah, all the renovating, shifting and installing processes have been successfully completed.

I can call myself now 'Org KL'! Emmm, never imagined that my life will be much easier than before. After got married, I rented a house in Bukit Jalil for a year, but because of not happy with the public transport (it took me 1 hour to reach office @ KLCC) I decided to move back to Seremban. We took bus very early in the morning, and in 1 hour, I could reach office (so nampak macam takde beza pun duduk KL and Seremban).

Then bila Hadif ada, we both pity Hadif sbb we have to leave the house early in the morning while he was still sleeping, and came back the earliest at 8pm, and by that time, we were both very tired to play with him.

So we decided to ride on a bike which had saved us a lot of times. But still feel exhausted whenever we reach home... tapi bertahan selama 10 months jugak lah!

And on last Sunday, we finally have shifted to KL ... and still riding to office...and it took me only 15 minutes to reach KLCC at the busiest time :-)

I am very happy with the decision that we made! I hope my life would be better after this!

Let's have a sneak preview to my house before the makeover....

KLCC is the view from balcony

Hadif adalah antara org yg membantu basuh rumah

View of my dapur after extension


Tunggu the photos of my house after makeover in the next post......

It's been a while since my last entry...

My workload is tremendously huge lately, and not to mention the stress that it has caused me...but I'm not complaining, sebab those works yg bagi aku rezeki, utk sama-sama with my hubby giving such a happy life to my boy and my future baby...

Tapi I don't deny..there were some good and bad things had happened during my absence from the blog...


BAD THINGS:

1. I am currently on 2 weeks MC, just had an emergency operation, which I do not want to disclose here....but I'm in a recovery mode...and Alhamdulillah, I hope I can get back to work earlier that I expected.


2. Have I ever mentioned here that I'm dealing with the most stupid vendor? Everytime I'm talking or even thinking about these idiots, my blood pressure has gone up! Not to mention that I were warded in August last year for 1 week due to the stress that I faced when dealing with these idiots. So what I'm doing now is I will try as much as I can to avoid these idiots from ruining my life. I did not pick up any phone calls, did not return their calls, did not reply to their messages and emails. But as a Package Engineer, I could not just runaway from my responsibilities.....I know I have to finish all the things that I have initiated and started....but I need some time for myself...and after I get back to office from my Medical Leaves...I will treat these idiots with my own way!! ( ahh...tak boleh citer byk pasal diorg ni, sbb dah ala-ala sakit hati and hilang mood nak continue).


3. I am also a Resident Engineer for my project, which I have to deal with my Engineering Consultant for the Design Works. They have been avoiding us as their client, because we are no longer sitting with them at their office in Empire Tower...emmm....siap la kau bila aku balik nanti...korang ingat kitorang suruh korang buat kerja for free ke...we pay couple of millions for you to do the works...so lepas ni korang tau la sapa client korang!! Bengang betul aku dgn Design Consultant yg satu ni!! Nama jer international company...Memang aku akan write a memo lepas ni!!


4. I had an assessment earlier this month (somehow aku menghilang pun sebab busy buat preparation for the assessment). I felt I was quite well prepared especially when I have been given a guideline to follow...however...I feel that the assesssors were not being fair to me...and did not exactly follow the guidelines..taknak elaborate lebih-lebih la on my frustration...


5. Rumah yg aku baru beli is in renovation stage...aku renovate the kitchen a bit...but we both have been cheated by a malay and muslim contractor....tapi walaupun sesama Islam, business is tetap business...and kalau buat business tapi tak menipu, tak boleh nak kaya cepat kan...so ada lah kami ni ala-ala tertipu sikit...tapi takpe...kami redha...sbb we both always believe that rezeki sentiasa ada utk kami ...


So enough about all bad things yg happen to me lately..let's talk about GOOD Stuff pulak...


1. Bank will release the money to the owner very soon...so I hope in 2-3 weeks time, I can move in! Aku dah extend the kitchen, and dah bayar pun for my kitchen cabinet (yg aku suka sangat2). 80% of the things required for the house aku dah beli like fridge, oven, cooking hob and hood, lampu, kipas and aircond. Yg tak beli lagi is just my dining table...sofa will use my existing ones sbb masih elok lagi..and small2 stuff will be bought while I already move in....


2. Skrg ni aku mmg byk kerja kat ofis...and again I'm not complaining but somehow I feel like my boss appreciate me more! He even gave me another opportunity to go to UK early this month for an equipment testing. But I refused to go sbb aku kena pergi sorang this time...and aku ni tak berapa adventurous sangat. Tapi bila aku propose other names instead of me, boss aku taknak hantar org lain. Dia kata if you don't want to go, I won't send anybody else to go.....hehehe...and at the end aku mmg taknak pergi even the Memo has been signed by his big bossess......


3. Hadif now makin sayang kat aku...for the past 2-3 weeks...kalau nak tido, mesti nak aku dukung dia...even daddy dia pun dia taknak. Walaupun aku ala-ala tak larat, tapi in a way I'm glad Hadif sayang kat aku...sbb sebelom ni he is more attached to my hubby...


4. Today is my 3 years 10 months anniversary...as usual, aku and my hubby will go out for dinner every 20th of the month. Malam ni ada terasa nak makan A&W lah...For all couples, you should practise this tradition...sbb ada la sepanjang dah nak 4 tahun kawin ni, we missed the dinner for 4-5 times sbb sebok sangat dgn everyday punye kerja..and especially bila Hadif dah ada ni, penat memanjang jer...tapi when you maintain this tradition, you
akan rasa your love for each other will always be there...and makin bertambah...try la!


5. Lastly, aku happy sebab bila ditimpa sakit macam skrg ni...aku tahu Allah masih sayang kat aku. Semalam aku tgk tv, ada sorang ustaz ni cakap, kalau seseorang itu ditimpa sakit, itu kerana Allah masih sayang kat kita, atau mungkin Allah nak bagi kita pahala, atau mungkin Allah ingin bagi peringatan kat kita. Dan hanya org2 yg istimewa sahaja akan ditimpa masalah dan penyakit....



Ya Allah, aku sentiasa bersyukur dgn segala nikmat dan rahmat yg Engkau kurniakan pada aku sekeluarga....

The award goes to ...

Aritu kawan sekolah aku, Hanney ada tag aku, tapi dah lama gille lah, sampai aku pun dah tak ingat...so tgh carik2 kat blog dia balik, terjumpa lak award ni ...hiks...hiks..

Since sapa yg dapat award ni kena pass kat 7 org member, aku pass kan jer la kat :

1. Dr. Kak Pah
2. Reen
3. Yus
4. Ain
5. Muhaimin
6. Aiza Momoe
7. Aween, kawan Ain

For those yg dapat award ni, kalau rajin copy and paste gambar ni into your blog and pass to 7 friends .... first time aku buat benda2 camni...hehehe....

PART 2

Finally I got time to update the PART 2

Ada org tanye, camna dan apa yg aku buat masa aku approach YUSRY dulu...

Camni ceritanye, masa tu, my hubby kan IT Analyst a.k.a semua kerja IT kat kilang tu is under him...aku yg really wanted to know him, buat2 la komplen pasal komputer yg aku dapat, sangat lembab la...mintak la dia increased kan R.A.M, pastu minta tambah harddisk la...

So bila semua dah setel, aku sent a 'thanks' note through email, for helping me...pastu dia dgn secara professionalnye jawab ''you are welcome...and that's memang his job...''

Alamak..bosan betul, orang nak try buat kawan, dia layan kita macam colleague biasa jer... Tapi aku yg tak pandai mengaku kalah ni, still hantar lagi email and email and email...

Everything started from the 'Thank You' email...then aku start korek rahsia dia, tanye dia ada gilfren ke tak...ye la..sebelom aku terjebak melayan perasaan, biar aku confirm kan dulu..aku taknak la frust di tengah jalan....rupa2nya Yusry ni tak pernah ada gilfren...yahooo!

Masa tu la aku try call dia...and he is really a fun guy...so setiap malam la aku call dia (walaupun dia tak pernah sekali pun call aku..) skrg ni aku complain la..sampai hati dia taknak call aku lansung...tapi bila aku call, dia layan baik jer...rupanye dia kata, kalau takde pape relationship, dia tak nak call, sebab nanti memberi harapan palsu kat aku...owwhhhhhh camtu......

The phone calls and emails went on for about 1 and half months....aku dah mula2 agak bosan dah sebab apart of being nice with me in the emails and calls, he was quite resistance when I asked for more....and I almost gave up...

Until....on the 25th December 2004, I went to office to do some works and coincidentally he was in the office also...and dia offer utk tolong aku transfer kat my stuff to my new workstation...and then he asked me to join him for lunch at the cafe... And on the same day, he asked me out...wow!!! bestnyer!!! impian menjadi kenyataan...

On our first date, he mentioned that he never like any particular girls before, tapi if dia dah jumpa someone yg meant for him, dia taknak kawan lama2...dia nak ajak kawin terus...

Wow!! Tapi aku taknak la syok sendiri sebab he did not mention that I am that 'someone'...tapi hati aku dah berdebar lah.....And...later that night, he called me and proposed me....and straight aku said YES!!!

Hehehe...tu la ceritanye... walaupun bila skrg ni everytime aku mention about the proposal...he didn't like to hear coz that was not the thing that he can be proud of. He said since he was too excited, he could not wait until he sees me, but to propose me via phone jer.... hehehe...takpe la sayang... I forgive you for that...walaupun takde melutut macam dalam cite kat dalam TV tu, tapi your phone call that night made me nak pengsan....

Tapi in a way, aku salute jugak dgn diri aku...sebab obviously, aku bukannya kenal sangat dgn dia...sbb baru jer sekali keluar...and all the while, we communicated through emails and phone je...so I tak tahu pun whether he is a good guy to be a husband...penyabar ke org nyer...baik ke family dia...tapi dah suka punye pasal..terus jer kata ok...

After 3 dates, we got engaged...and 4 bulan lepas tu kitorang kawin...And skrg dah almost 4 tahun becomes his wife...there is not even 1 day that I regret my decision...Kalau org tgk kitorang, still nampak macam baru kawin jer... sini sana nak berkepit jer..nasib baik dah ada Hadif...kalau tak, betul-betul macam belangkas...hehehe...

Hubby...I love you so much...there is no words can describe it!!

p/s My success story ni dah byk jugak la aku share dgn kawan2 yg masih single...just to give them some motivation...